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Tables of Contents for Living As Healer
Chapter/Section Title
Page #
Page Count
Dear Reader
1
3
Introduction
4
1
Two Basic Facts About Relationships
5
1
Talking is a Spiritual Experience
6
1
Talk Therapy
7
1
Beginning
8
2
Professional Persons
10
1
Healing and Wounding
10
5
Releasing Your Healer
15
7
What is Therapy
16
2
Acknowledging That We Are Healers
18
3
Review
21
1
What You Need to Know to Be Useful
22
13
The First Step
23
1
Cries and Coos
23
1
Natural Processes
24
1
The Task of the Healer
25
1
Feelings Are the Keys
26
2
Examples
28
4
A Word of Caution
32
2
Important Points to Remember
34
1
Listening is Healing
35
10
Five Phenomena of Listening
38
1
Intriguing
39
2
Bored
41
1
Confusing
42
1
Insightful
42
1
Parallel-Process
43
1
Important Points of this Chapter
44
1
Keeping Focus
45
12
What is a Counseling Contract and How Do You Establish One?
46
10
Things to Fix in Your Mind from this Chapter
56
1
The Splinter in the Toe
57
9
Finding the Splinter in the Toe
59
2
Options for Intervening
61
4
Ideas from this Chapter to Fix in Your Minds
65
1
Doing the Right Thing
66
15
What is a Healthy Healer?
66
2
Right Things to Do When Functioning as a Healer
68
1
Steps to Take as a Healer
68
10
Follow Process
68
2
Don't Tolerate Abuse
70
3
No Blaming
73
1
When in Doubt, Punt
74
2
Use Humor
76
1
Don't Pathologize
76
1
Build on Health
77
1
The Curse of Grandiosity
78
3
Ending and Checking Up
81
13
Ending
81
2
A Word of Warning
83
1
Healers Need Healers
84
1
Why We Need Our Own Healers
85
2
Confidentiality
87
1
Lethal Issues
88
1
Be Realistic
89
1
By Way of Review
90
1
Checklist Instructions
91
3
What to Do If?
94
17
Someone Develops over Attachment
94
2
You Don't like the Person Who Asks for Counsel
96
2
You Find You Are Sexually Attracted to the Person with Whom You Are Working
98
2
The Person You Counsel is Over-Demanding
100
1
You Can't Get a Contract for Problem Solving
101
2
Someone Talks Too Much
103
1
Someone Won't Talk
104
4
You Dread Meetings with the Person
108
1
You Realize an Issue Is More Serious than You Originally Thought
109
2
In Summary
111
A Personal Word From Denton
111
A Personal Word From Caddy
113