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Tables of Contents for Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of the House?
Chapter/Section Title
Page #
Page Count
Preface
ix
2
Acknowledgments
xi
2
"The Weather Outside Is Frightful/The Fire Is So Delightful": A Special Introduction
xiii
 
Bill Eyman
1 Somewhere Over the Rainbow
1
5
2 "Nowhere to Run, Nowhere to Hide" (A Lesson in Self-Worth)
6
6
3 So Who Else Is Gay in Your Family? (or, Who Is Uncle Ann?)
12
8
4 What Is "Dysfunctional"?
20
9
5 Intimacy: "Put a Little Love in Your Heart"
29
6
6 How to Date and Be Gay About It (or, How to Be a Road Runner on the Path of Life)
35
9
7 Boundaries: Good Fences Make Good Neighbors (and Good Lovers and Friends)
44
8
8 "I Am You and You Are Me and We Are Three and We Are All Together" (About Codependency)
52
10
9 Getting Over Your Fears
62
5
10 I Am Who I Am: Are You the "L" Word or a "Lesbian"? (About Internalized Homophobia)
67
8
11 "Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes"
75
6
12 "Let's Talk About Sex, Baby -- Let's Talk About You and Me"
81
6
13 Wrapped Too Tight or Plain Worn Out: Sex Therapy
87
7
14 "Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places": Sex Addiction
94
8
15 "I Can't Live If Living Is Without You": Love/Relationship Addiction
102
5
16 You Will Survive! You Will Survive Your Relationship Addiction!!
107
5
17 "Circle in the Sand": The Path to Nowhere
112
7
18 The "Second Closet": Gay and Lesbian Partner Abuse
119
6
19 "Midlife at the Oasis" (and Other Fun Places)
125
7
20 "When I'm Sixty-Four" (On Aging)
132
6
21 "If You Can't Be with the One You Love" (When Your Ex Is Straight)
138
9
22 To Bi or Not to Bi: Is This a Question??
147
6
23 Coming Out in Your Forties, Your Fifties, and -- Yes -- Your Sixties!
153
7
24 You Can't Be My First, but You Can Be My Favorite
160
6
25 Passing the Torch: Don't Give Up the Fight
166
7
26 "Never Going to Make You Cry, Never Going to Say Goodbye": Grieving Multiple Losses
173
6
27 Aloha: Love and Gay/Lesbian Marriage and Beyond (or, I'm Getting Married in the Morning -- Whether It's Legal or Not!)
179
7
28 Drinking: What's This About?
186
6
29 2001: The Cyber-Sex Space Odyssey
192
6
30 Coming Out to Your Parents: The Do's and Don'ts
198
7
31 The Birds and the Birds; the Bees and the Bees: Coming Out to Your Children
205
9
32 Therapy Demystified
214
8
33 God Bless You: Religion Revisited
222
7
34 The Yard Sale: "If You Want It, Here It Is -- Come and Get It"
229
4
Notes
233
3
Resource Guide
236