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Tables of Contents for How to Succeed With Men
Chapter/Section Title
Page #
Page Count
Introduction
xi
So You Want Success with Men
1
21
How We'll Speak to You in This Book
2
3
You've Got What It Takes
5
2
The Ten Step ``Master Plan'' To Get a Relationship You Love
7
1
The Results You Can Expect
8
1
Eight Myths About Dating You Can't Afford to Believe
9
12
Conclusion
21
1
Assess Yourself: What Do You Want?
22
32
``What If I Know I Want Him, And He Doesn't Want Me?''
24
1
You Get to Say, and You Get to See
25
1
Your Ideal Relationship
26
6
The Test
32
1
Evaluation
33
1
Creating Your Timeline
34
9
Lights ... Camera ... Action Plan: The Seven Steps of Creating Your Relationship Action Plan
43
4
The Nine Most Common Reasons Why Women Stop Pursuing the Right Guy
47
6
Conclusion
53
1
Making Yourself Worth Winning
54
33
Why Have Personal Style?
58
2
What You Say with How You Dress
60
2
The Four Keys to Creating the Message You Send to Men
62
3
Confidence
65
6
The Numbers Game
71
4
The Four Excuses that Keep You from Feeling Confident
75
6
Other Confidence Builders
81
4
Conclusion
85
2
Prepare to Meet Your Mate
87
22
The Six Excuses that Keep You From Meeting Men
89
8
The Goddess List of the Top Eight Routines for Meeting Men
97
10
Conclusion
107
2
Meeting Men: Hunting Your Prey
109
29
Men Are Everywhere
110
3
Places to Meet Men Based on Your Hobbies and Interests
113
13
How to Think about Finding Places to Meet Men
126
2
Where to Meet Men
128
9
Conclusion
137
1
Flirting Without Disaster
138
39
So You've Found Men To Talk To: Now, How Do You Do It?
139
1
What is Flirting?
140
2
What Flirting Does
142
2
Making a Man into a Flirting ``Winner''
144
1
Flirting Your Way to the Date
145
1
The Three Steps of a Flirting Interaction
146
19
The Dirty Dozen Flirting Mistakes Men Make, and How You Can Get Things Back on Track
165
12
The Eleven Tests of the Flirting Interaction
177
17
Why Test Men?
179
13
Conclusion
192
2
Before the Qualifying Date
194
23
The Four Elements of a Qualifying Date
196
6
The Four Expectations that Cause Trouble on the Qualifying Date
202
9
The Four Ways to Prepare for a Qualifying Date
211
5
Conclusion
216
1
On the Qualifying Date
217
34
Tests to Run on Him
217
3
Money On the Date
220
1
The Man Handler: Controlling the Sexual Speed of the Date
221
3
Don't Leave Him at a Loss
224
8
Rules For Sharing Feelings
232
1
How to Listen So He Wins
233
1
To Kiss Or Not To Kiss
234
2
Creating the Next Date
236
1
The Three Signs to Break Off the Date Early
237
3
The Boneheaded Mistakes Men Make
240
4
Drugs and Alcohol
244
1
After the Date
245
6
Preparing for the Middle Date
251
20
The Seven Components of a Successful Middle Date
254
8
Middle Date Tests
262
3
Things to Do Before a Middle Date
265
6
Charming a Man on the Middle Date
271
22
Assessing How ``Fast'' You Want to Be
271
1
The Easy Ways to Seduce a Man
272
15
After the Date
287
6
Zen and the Art of Man Maintenance
293
18
Maintenance and Your Excuses
293
1
Frequency of Maintenance
294
2
The Six Maintenance Keys that Keep You Securely in a Man's Heart and Thoughts
296
6
Getting Less Formal
302
3
The Seven Steps of Fighting with a Man
305
5
Conclusion
310
1
Problems and Trouble
311
56
Dates from Hell
312
3
The Maintenance Spectrum
315
5
The Eight Secrets of Handling the Problems Men Cause
320
9
The Ways Men Fight and How to handle Them
329
6
The Three Classic Men to Avoid
335
5
The Eighteen Problem Men and How to Handle Them
340
10
The Twenty-five Problem Women
350
1
Breaking up Is Easy to Do
351
9
How to Handle the Top Problems Men Cause
360
6
Conclusion
366
1
The Commitment Deal: Preparing for the Commitment Conversation
367
24
The Commitment Deal
369
2
What Commitment Looks Like to You, and What Commitment Looks Like to Him
371
8
Preparing for Your Commitment Deal Conversation
379
3
The Fifteen Commitment Killers
382
5
The Eight Signs that He Is Ready for the Commitment Conversation
387
2
Conclusion
389
2
The Commitment Conversation
391
23
When Not to Start a Commitment Conversation
393
2
When It's Best to Start a Commitment Conversation
395
2
The Fourteen Steps of a Successful Commitment Conversation
397
12
The Commitment Deal Conversation: A Play in One Act
409
3
Conclusion
412
2
Loving a Man for the Long Term
414
26
The Seven Keys to Keeping a Long-Term Relationship Happy, Exciting and Hot
415
9
Continuing to Upgrade the Commitment Deal
424
2
The Six Stumbling Blocks to Happy, Healthy and Hot Long-Term Relationships
426
9
Intimacy in the Bedroom
435
3
Conclusion
438
2
Conclusion
440
7
Figure Out Exactly What you Want in a Man and in a Relationship
442
1
Make Yourself Worth Winning
443
1
Interview a Lot of Applicants
443
1
Test the Applicants
443
1
Give Men Emotional Wins and Losses
444
1
Spend Time with a Man
444
1
Handle Problems
445
1
Present Him with a ``Commitment Deal''
445
1
Close the Commitment Deal
445
1
Keep the Commitment Deal Closed
446
1
In Conclusion
446
1
Index
447