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This Is How You Say Goodbye: A Daughter's Memoir
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Bibliographic Detail
Publisher Griffin
Publication date September 23, 2014
Pages 224
Binding Paperback
Book category Adult Non-Fiction
ISBN-13 9781250056504
ISBN-10 1250056500
Dimensions 0.75 by 5 by 8.25 in.
Weight 0.45 lbs.
Original list price $16.99
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When Victoria Loustalot was eight years old her father swept her up in a grand fantasy: a trip around the world. It was an outlandish plan and she fell for it. But it could never happen. Victoria's once-closeted father was gay and HIV positive. Not long after making his promise, he would be bedridden full-blown AIDS. Three days before her eleventh birthday, he would kill himself.
But Victoria never forgot the fantasy. And she never stopped wondering what it would have been like to be alone with her father, to have seen him outside of his bed and his home, to have been with him in a new context. And what of him? Would he have glimpsed not just that eight-year-old girl on the banks of the Seine, but his adult daughter, too?

This Is How You Say Goodbye follows a daughter as she searches for answers about her father, and about herself. In this razor-sharp memoir, Victoria Loustalot travels to Cambodia, Stockholm, and Paris to find out who her difficult and charismatic father was, and where, exactly, she came from. Writing with grace, humor, and ruthless honesty, she investigates her father's past, tracks down the men he loved, and ultimately finds peace within a jagged loss. This is a book born out of love and need, because while her father would always be forty-four, Victoria came to understand their relationship was still very much alive. And she needed to say goodbye.

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from St Martins Pr (September 10, 2013)
9781250005205 | details & prices | 224 pages | 5.75 × 8.25 × 1.00 in. | 0.70 lbs | List price $24.99
About: A razor-sharp memoir in which a young woman travels to Cambodia, Stockholm, and Paris to overcome the legacy of her difficult and charismatic fatherWhen Victoria Loustalot was eight years old her father swept her up in a fantasy: a trip around the world.
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from Griffin (September 23, 2014)
9781250056504 | details & prices | 224 pages | 5.00 × 8.25 × 0.75 in. | 0.45 lbs | List price $16.99
About: When Victoria Loustalot was eight years old her father swept her up in a grand fantasy: a trip around the world.

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