Amazon.com description: Product Description: Too many women never achieve the romantic and sexual fulfillment they want and deserve and usually blame their partners for getting it wrong. But what if the problem isn't him? Designed to be both inspirational and achievable, It's Not Him, It's You! helps women break out of bad relationship patterns and achieve lasting romance and sexual satisfaction. Renowned relationship therapist and New York Times bestselling author, Laura Berman helps identify the damaging patterns of thought and behavior that prevent women from finding lasting love. It's Not Him, It's You! shows women how to overcome self-blame and lack of confidence, how to acknowledge bad relationship choices so that they are never repeated, how to feel confident in the bedroom, and how to bring romance and intimacy back into your sex life.